Marry to a rich man, you can enjoy nice food  , state of art vehicle,dressed in expensive clothes and bejewelled , luxurious villa, stay in the fragrant air , this kind of day should be very good? But, the man makes money requires the time and the energy, a rich man is either a merchant who haggles over every penny, or is a powerful official who is busy with social things. In merchant's brain fills the benefit, every day plans invests and benefits, lacks carefulness and thoughtfulness and tenderness . Many year ago that some famous philosopher had already completely understood this kind of man's essential - - more attention on interests than  love.

      As for a powerful official man, his brain fills the connections of all kinds of relations, every day he is weighing whom is supposed to get near, and whom is supposed to get far away from, lacks the tender feelings. A rich man often does not have enough time to accompany  the woman. Marriying to this kind of man is equal to marrying to the television, to the beauty shop, must endure the spiritual void for a long time, has only a superficial magnificence, who knows the innermost feelings of bitterness and sorrow?         

     Marrying to a handsome guy, obviously is to end yourself,  Even if the handsome guy has only you in his mind to love, but how can he withstand the love offered by other women  in spite of anything. the more handsome  the guy is the more and quicker affairs come, that is so quick that you even cannot finish them all the time, just like a plant will burgeon in the spring like always,   so your marriage will be like a farce of one enters onto the stage after the other finishes her show.   

     Marrying to a man who has enough leisure time, every day you can be accompanied, he doesn't have so much thing to do, his memory is good, your birthday, your wedding anniversary , even your mother's birthday, he can remember clearly. He goes home on time every day, also makes a good cooking, is willing to accompany you to go shopping, and also good at raising children. Your life is surrounded by him every day, should not have regrets any more? No, this kind of man's ability is often limited, does not have much money, you must go through the hardness and fight for life with him together,and then can obtain a sufficient  life. Seeing other woman lives in clover , their facial features have been still beautiful at the age of 40s, ten figure are slender and smooth, but your skin has already been gently rough and the white pretty hands distorted at a younger age, then you would feel not even and fair and don't want to resign to your life, how come the others can be married to “the diamond man”, but yourself  a junk?

     Marrying to a man who is good at talking sweetly and nicely, your mood especially will be happy, this kind of man is intelligent and careful, be good at discovering woman's beauty. You have changed a hairstyle,  clothes, even a new brand of lipstick, he can discover promptly, and praises immediately. He will praise your transparent earlobe unconventionally, will praise your perfect sexy round ankle, you  will be infatuated with the feeling of being appreciated by the other , because some beauty you could not even discover. But, you should be clear minded, this kind of man is also good at discovering other women's beauty besides you. His sweet words and praises will be said to many women, you did not even know how many are before you to listen to those sweet words and praises. This kind of man is very dangerous,  and could result in a few affairs outside if not careful, you would feel  the innermost pain and shame if sharing with others in terms of love.

      Marrying to a simple and clumsy man, you may feel relieved freely, he is loyal and devoted to you,  he would absolutely not look askance those beautiful women who passes his side. But, this kind of man often is too much slow, he even couldn't find that you have traded pair of new style shoes for one week, You ask him which color of nail polish is better, pink or lilac?  his usual look could be vacant and confused. Marrying to this kind of man that is short of sentiment, you will fell that your feminine beauty is not existing.

      Which kind of man you marry to  is quite good ? so you would not scold that you are  blind? woman must certainly marry cleverly, if not, even if escapes by luck from the besieged circumstance of family , but would be scared and stay clear form it then -, only if you are Nike.

      Marrying to the talented person, how could you say? first divide the talented person into two kinds: outstanding and unsuccessful with unrecognized talent. The former one's marriage is charming and attractive and always creates a stir, but the result not really wonderful. the combination of talented men and beautiful women is too good to be true, and couldn't go better anymore, so could only break off and develop to the other side for sure in the future.  Better not marry those unsuccessful talented people, otherwise it is just like to accompany him to condemn the Heaven together for not having eyes, the villain for blocking the road, for his own bad luck. Unsuccessful talented people always has a resentment, longer and deeper resentment could result in gloom. Do not ask me to look for some real examples, because they have been buried by the brutal and real life.

      Marrying to some professional people is seemingly good, for instance attorney  and doctor, after marriage everything of yours will be escorted. This kind of person has certain education quality and background, generally  would be very reasonable, But they are usually very busy,sometimes make a house call in the midnight, not available and open on  vacations , moreover is not possibly romantic, has a kind of rigorous occupational disease,  and get you stranded in the marriage to howl alone.

      marrying to a teacher, they are very difficult to get an opportunity of promotion, do not so much to give you some surprise. their working method is to crawl from the lower grade to the higher grade, then fall down the straight line, and then starts again the same thing, they always enjoy this greatly. Their merit will be that every year they will have three months to be possible to be the house-husband, and to be the tutor for the children for free.

     You may perhaps say that  you will not regret to marry a man who is rich and also has enough  leisure time, and attractive and sentiment and very loyal. that is it, but, in the real world there is no such perfect man. Even if there is, you cannot be the right match, because you are not perfect. Therefore, you will regret no matter whom you will marry to, you can only defend and stick to a mediocre and ordinary marriage, everybody cannot escape by luck - -, because women also have a lot of faults and not perfect. This is very helpless, but this is life. Perhaps you would not regret if not get married at all, but lonelyness and solitude is more fearful  and terrible than regret.