The ideal man is always looking for the woman who has real romantic tenancies, (which is most women) because this is the woman who will respond the most to typical male charm.

Most guys are afraid to show any type of romantic overtones to women - a subtle caress, or an off-color comment has become too much of a "risk."  But to the average woman dying for romance, the most romantic gestures can be just as ineffective if not done right.

Some men may be more proficient at attracting women than others.  But seducing women is a skill that can be learned, and using the art of seduction is the way to do it.

Seduction is something which can only be achieved by learning about your 'victim', her passions, desires and needs, then using those to convince her you are the one she needs to go further with romantically.

You need to start asking yourself the tough questions - who are you? Do you believe in yourself?  Do you think you're attractive?  Allowing yourself to be confident will help others to see that confidence in you.

By stepping your game up a little, and practicing some confidence enhancing techniques, you are already well on your way there - there is nothing that a lot of women find more attractive than a man who is confident (not too confident!) in himself, sexually as well as otherwise.

Confidence allows you to find the courage to meet and interact with any woman you want.  The average guy, who's riddled with insecurities, will chicken out and let fear affect their success with women.  But by developing your confidence, you'll have an edge when it comes to getting the girl you desire.

Don't forget, a brave man will not live forever, but a cautious one will not live at all!

Look at yourself. What are your attractive features? Everyone has at least three.

You need to learn how to use what you have to your advantage, instead of wishing you had a better body or better looks, you need to focus on what you DO have, like your winning smile, great sense of humor, or full head of hair.  The lesson here is - take what you DO have and make it work for you!

You have to learn to turn off your "critical factor" and look at yourself in the best light possible.  Bring your most attractive features to the forefront and use that to your advantage.  This can be the critical difference between a successful seduction and a harsh rejection.

Once you've determined what assets you have to work with, it's time to put them to use.  Take every advantage you can get to communicate your interest and desire and get a woman's attraction to you going.  Smile at her, make strong eye contact, run your hands through your hair, make a fun joke - do whatever you have to do to bring your best, most seductive, qualities to the forefront.

Romance was mentioned in the beginning, and it's not something to be taken lightly! Some women just love romantic gestures and others don't.

What all women do appreciate though is the odd gesture that shows you care or find her attractive. This doesn't need to be an extravagant gift; it could be something as simple. Wrack your brains for something original, that you think she'd really like - a line of poetry snuck into her handbag, a small book or CD/DVD on a topic you've both talked about together so she remembers you, just something small but memorable.

When dealing with women, you got to be brave.  Take a chance at getting rejected.  Allow yourself to flirt and joke and have fun with her.  This will really seperate yourself from other men.

Seduction is all about taking your thoughts, feelings, actions, and ideas, and making them work for you to get a desired romantic outcome.

Always try to plan ahead, but wait for the right time to make the move, if that time doesn't come along this time, wait until next time. Seduction cannot be rushed and she'll ultimately be more receptive when it happens naturally. When the time comes for intimacy, play it as you think it needs to be played.

Last, but not least, take action to close the deal.  If you've done your job right, you'll know when its time to get physical.  Don't be afraid to make your move and complete the seduction.

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