What is love? Why we could be marriage? It's honest for me too harm to get it, but i really want to know the trueth hidden in surface phenomenon. I guess so many people also eager to know the answer even somebody spend their all live to find the trueth.
Someone accused that it is a stage everyone should undergo just for your all live wonderful and happyness. I believe its right but only the half of it. No doubt the sweet love existed between girlfriend and boyfriend, what a desirable emotion. But not all sweet love could be eternally as long as gloden marriage, so the broken love and divorce be seen anywhere.
Otherone viewed that love is only a chemistry by chance. Aha, it seems mouch more romantic and dramastic, but showes a little helplessness. I thought it maybe voiced from the single person long for loving. But it doesn't false at all. At least beginning of love is a chemistry, so strangers could fall in love at first glimpse. Just the time of beginning, coz the marriage isn't chemistry only should have more things to be considered including interesting, faith, responsibility, habit, background, ability, attitude and so on. So predecessor said the marriage should chose an adapt door (translation from chinese).
Above all, the means of love and marriage confused for me even for you, but we know love is simpler than marriage nowadays. At least the first stage of love clear up to ours, dramatic chemistry. Now another issue send to ous, which will you chose if both of them be faced. Wow, almost inpossible get the answer as it's too complicated.
For me, if i want to get a simple and boring live the love suit for me, while if i want to give a challenge to solve difficulties the marriage may much more adapted. What does i want? Sorry, it is unsolved for me. So, baby, don't mind these problems, led our live go on as we expected.